Perspective is Everything
As coaches, we are storytellers, and we are the ones permitted by our athletes to help explain what is going on and why it happened.
At our best, we can broaden their perspective and give them better options than what is offered through the different forms of media available to them.
Read this poem, then read it in the reverse sentence by sentence: same words, different perspective.
Today was the absolute worst day ever
And don't try to convince me that
There's something good in everyday
Because, when you take a closer look,
This world is a pretty evil place.
Even if
Some goodness does shine through once in a while
Satisfaction and happiness don't last.
And it's not true that
It's all in the mind and heart
Because
True happiness can be attained
Only if one's surroundings are good
It's not true that good exists
I'm sure you can agree that
The reality
Creates
My attitude
It's all beyond my control
And you'll never in a million years hear me say
Today was a very good day
Now read it from bottom to top, sentence by sentence, and see the world from a different perspective.
I share this with my athletes, asking one of the leaders to read it, then allowing a different leader to read. It always sparks great conversation.